Army Captain · Master Stylist · Author
HAIRCUTS
& HANDGRENADES
Mastering the art of the clean cut in explosive moments. De-escalate the blast. Style your truth with integrity.

A GUIDE TO CUTTING THROUGH FEAR AND FINDING INTEGRITY IN CONFLICT
Choose Your Entry Point
WHERE DO YOU NEED THE CUT?
Field Manual
THE BOOK
Get the guide that started it all. Haircuts & Handgrenades arms you with the FIND Method to navigate any explosive conversation.
Get Your Copy →The Precision Cut
SPEAKING & COACHING
Bring Todd's high-voltage methodology to your organization. Keynotes, workshops, and deep-dive coaching for teams under fire.
Initiate Comms →Your Guide for Conflict
H&H TACTICAL GUIDE
An interactive, evolving tool built on the book. Take the Fear Score assessment. Work through the FIND Canvas. Walk out looking sharp.
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The Dual Uniform
IN THE FIELD.
BEHIND THE CHAIR.
Todd Kane spent years mastering high-stakes situations — first in military command centers, then in the intimate, unscripted environment of his stylist chair.
Both worlds taught him the same truth: the moment of conflict is the moment of character. He developed the FIND Method after reaching his own detonation point — discovering that integrity is the only bridge strong enough to cross the gap between fear and truth.
Read His StoryThe Framework
THE FIND METHOD
F
FEEL
Identify your triggers before they blow. Understand the heat of the detonation point.
I
INTERROGATE
Comb through the biases that cloud your vision. Find the root tangles.
N
NAVIGATE
Use your values as fixed points in the sky. Map the movement toward integrity.
D
DO
Execute the hard work of integrity. Build the bridge and choose peace.
Social Proof
FROM THE FIELD AND THE CHAIR
“Todd gave our battalion the tools to have the hard conversations we'd been avoiding for years.”
LT. COL. M. RIVERA
US Army
“I've never had someone describe conflict like a haircut before. Now I can't stop thinking about it.”
SARAH T.
Corporate Team Lead
“The FIND Method changed how I approach every difficult client—and every difficult family dinner.”
JAMES K.
Stylist & Salon Owner
Coming Soon
H&H TACTICAL GUIDE
Your Stylist's Guide for Conflict
An interactive, AI-powered workbook built on the book. Take the Fear Score Assessment. Work through the FIND Canvas. Get real-time feedback. Walk out looking sharp.
Get Early Access
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